Today I would like to share with you the stories of two men who are beating the opinions of the medical profession and are living productive lives.
A few months back my son-in-law conned me into going to a local taping of one of the Worldwide Entertainment (WWE, formerly World Wrestling Federation) shows. I met someone there whose life has a few lessons for everyone with a brain-related disability. In the interest of confidentiality I’ll call him Mike.
Mike and his older brother had seats next to ours. Mike, being the more outgoing, introduced himself as well as his brother when they took their seats. Mike is a big time fan of wrestling to the point that he can tell you what happened at every pro wrestling event as far back as 10 years ago. Since we had about 30 minutes before the show started, the four of us chatted the time away.
Mike related how he only worked part time at the local office of Catholic Charities, where he sorted donations of food, clothing, or whatever happened to come through the door. When he wasn’t working he spent his time helping his mother with “house stuff” such as laundry, cleaning, mowing the lawn, shopping for groceries, “whatever needs doing,” as he called it.
His brother told us how Mike had to overcome a number of health problems in his 24 years of life.
First came open heart surgery to repair a valve in his heart. Then came another surgery to fix a tight spot in his esophagus. The doctors eventually told his parents that he was probably autistic and that he would wind up in an institution some day. Fortunately, for Mike, his parents told his doctors that they would prove them wrong.
Mike received home schooling in addition to his regular special education schoolwork. It soon became apparent that he was functioning better than kids with classic autism and, thanks to an alert school counselor, he was re-evaluated by a team of neuropsychologists who diagnosed Mike as having “high functional” autism or, more formerly, Asperger’s Syndrome. Mike lives at home, and he never saw the inside of an institution.
To put it mildly, Mike had one Hell of a good time that night. The show may have been scripted and choreographed in advance, but it was just what Mike wanted.
Lawrence’s story is pretty much the same as Mike’s, but a recent event in his life involves something that shouldn’t happen in America or any other country.
Lawrence is also a “high function” autistic. He works in the produce department of a Belen, NM Wal-Mart Superstore and has been there for 10 years. His employee evaluations have been excellent, he has been named “Employee of the Month” several times and, on top of that, he loves his job. Until a new department manager arrived, that is.
This new manager, in Lawrence’s presence, demanded of the store manager that Lawrence be fired because “he’s retarded,” “he sets a bad example” and the he “can’t read and write.” She further demanded that Lawrence take his yearly vacation time immediately and be terminated the day that he returned to work.
Needless to say, that pissed this writer off.
Since your humble correspondent spent a year of his misguided youth in law school, I reverted to a state best described as that of “lawyer prick.”
I recommended that Lawrence and his parents to immediately send a letter to the store manager in which they should “suggest” that he and the meat and produce department managers should devote a few hours to familiarize themselves with the provisions of the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA). Specifically, they should “suggest” that the Wal-Mart managers read the sections regarding “harassments” and “threats.” They also should “suggest” that, since the department managers have initiated demands that Lawrence be fired, if Lawrence should be dismissed for anything other than willful employee misconduct that Wal-Mart, the store manger, and the meat and produce managers individually, will be sued for violating Lawrence’s civil rights under the Civil Rights Act of 1991 and for illegal harassment and terminations as described in the ADA.
I’ve said it before and will say it again and again: as long as jerks like the above-mentioned Wal-Mart managers are allowed to get away with such reprehensible behavior, Dr. King’s immortal words in his “Letter from the Birmingham Jail” will give a concise summary of the world that those of us with physical or mental handicaps are facing:
“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”
I’m Wayne McDonald and I’m a brain injury survivor. And I hate bigots.